The Virginia Days

While living away from all of our family has its downsides, Chris, Olivia and I (and of course the dogs, Raff and Axel) get to enjoy the anticipation, excitement, and genuine quality time on the occasions that we see our family and friends. This is especially true when Mom and Steve come to visit us in Virginia. I think I particularly enjoy it because the moment they walk in the door, after a few excited licks from the dogs, they are totally relaxed. In fact, they are so comfortable and relaxed here that it is not uncommon for them to stumble out of bed at 9 or 10 in the morning (I hear that this doesn’t occur much at home). Throughout our visit, we may find an adventure in the DC, Virginia, Maryland area, or just sit around unproductively, laptops in hand, watching movies, and conjuring up delicious, oh-so fattening food.  Whatever we end up doing, it is always a good time. The last (almost) two weeks have been no exception, as you’ve seen in previous posts.

Checking out the Virginia countryside together

Among the millions of things new mothers worry about, one thing I was concerned about was how Olivia would respond to family who she sees all too rarely.  This (along with 75% of the other anxieties) has proven to be an unnecessary concern. Within minutes of their arrival last Monday, she was so engaged with Mom and Steve, showing off her new skills, cuddling, flirting, and yelping for their attention if they happened to look away.

There is one thing that is unmistakable: the love that these two have for their grandchildren. I have always known it, but it wasn’t until Olivia’s birth that I really experienced it. By the way Olivia interacts with them, I’m certain that she knows it too. When Olivia looks at Steve, she doesn’t see any symptom of his EOAD. She sees someone getting down on the floor to play with her, making funny faces, and constantly ensuring that she is all right. There is no doubt in my mind that she feels his adoration in his tender touch. This innocence and unconditional love gives me a renewed faith on life.

Love from day one

While I would like to keep them here for the remainder of their trip, today we must send them off to continue their journey down the east coast. We wish them safe travels, beautiful weather, and so much love as they create life long memories over the next few weeks.

May you have fair winds and following seas!